If you were to live to be a thousand years old, and you were to do something different in bed every single night for that thousand years, never repeating the same thing twice, you would still not have time to do it all!
Sometimes, though, even the most creative person needs a bit of inspiration. On these pages, you'll find ideas and suggestions to help spark creativity in you sex life. If that sounds interesting to you, read on!
Role-playing can be a lot of fun. Student/teacher, pirate/captive...the possibilities are endless. Beyond role-playing, there are all sorts of things you can do to spice up your sex life in new and creative ways.
A SUSHI DINNER
If you like sushi, and bondage appeals to you, why not combine the two? This scenario offers some ideas for how to do that, and also introduces a new variation on the idea of nipple clamps.
BOUND TO PLEASE
A scenario that starts with a surprise greeting at the door and ends with your partner tied to the bed and both of you in ecstasy.
"Psychological bondage" is any situation where you don't physically restrain your partner by means of ropes or other ties.
THE ART OF FIGGING
"Figging" is the sadly underappreciated art of using ginger root for sexual stimulation. It's surprisingly easy to do, doesn't require any sort of equipment, and is a great adjunct to spanking or cropping.
An interrogation scene, in which one person tries to get information from his or her partner, can be psychologically intense and very hot.
Fantasies of coercion and non-consent are among the most common of all sexual fantasies. This guide shows how to act them out safely and have fun doing it.
ALL ABOUT BONDAGE
Tying up your partner, or being tied up, can be a lot of fun. And tying someone to the bed is just the tip of the iceberg; there are a lot of possibilities beyond. This section provides tips, tricks, tutorials, how-tos, plans, and suggestions to get started.
A versatile, fun, and easy-to-use item, bondage tape is a great and non-threatening way to start exploring bondage.
TYING TO THE BED
Fear not; even if you have no bedposts to tie someone to, you can still tie someone down to your bed. This explains how.
Easier and quicker than tying with rope, using cuffs of various types is a good way to explore bondage.
A BASIC ROPE BODY HARNESS
How to make a basic rope body harness, even if you can't tie any knots.
Incorporating a frog tie, which holds a person on his or her knees, into a basic rope harness. It's simpler than you think!
A breast harness is very easy to make, and looks very good on a female submissive or bottom. It also feels really good.
A BASIC CHAIN HARNESS
How to make a body harness from chain instead of rope.
A SIMPLE TWO-COLUMN WEAVE
How to tie someone's arms or legs together, using a beautiful weave that looks complicated but is really quite simple..
A ROPE HARNESS WITH DILDO
Turn a karada rope harness into a strap-on harness as well.
Okay, so you have your lover tied down; now what do you do? Sensation play is the exploration of different types of touch; there's plenty of fun stuff here to keep you busy!
FEATHERS AND TICKLERS
The mildest and most gentle forms of sensation play often involve the use of feathers and other light objects on the surface of your lover's skin.
Do you like cold? Warmth? Quick, easy, and inexpensive, temperature play is a fun way to spice up lovemaking.
HOT WAX PLAY
If you like the sensation of heat, melted wax is easy and fun. There are several ways to do it that go beyond just dripping candles over your partner's body!
HOW TO MAKE AN ICE DILDO
While we're on the subject of temperature play, this page describes how to make a dildo in whatever size you like from ice, using only things you can find around the house.
PRICKLE AND POKE
For mild to moderate stimulation, try something a little more unusual. Wartenberg wheels, bamboo skewers, and the like all have a place in the bedroom!
CLIPS AND CLAMPS PART I
Clothespins, tweezer clamps, and other pinchy things point the way to some new sensations in bed.
CLIPS AND CLAMPS PART II
Moving beyond clothespins and simple clamps, we'll talk about some creative uses for clamps, and creating different kinds of sensations with clamps. Includes ideas for games you can play using clamps.
CLIPS AND CLAMPS PART III
How to make a zip strip from common household items, and an introduction to predicament bondage.
Spanking, paddling, even flogging...it's more fun than you think. From a gentle caress to a harder smack, there's lots of territory here to explore.
|THE JOYS OF PADDLING
Paddling is a good basic form of impact play suitable for exploration. This kind of activity finds itself in many roleplay scenarios.
THE ONLINE GUIDE TO FLOGGING
A very, very wide range of sensation, from gentle caress to sharp sting, can be produced by flogging. This guide offers a complete how-to on choosing a flogger, and explains how to use a flogger, and even offers some advanced flogging techniques.
CROPS: NOT JUST FOR EQUESTRIANS!
A good crop is a fun and inexpensive way to bring impact play up to the next level. A crop can be used in many ways, some soft and sensual and others that leave welts. Crops are easy to use and easy to care for.
THE FINE ART OF CANING
For those who like intense sensation, little can compare to a cane.
Do-it-yourself projects, such as how to make your own latex catsuit, that don't really fit anywhere else.
HOW TO MAKE A LATEX CATSUIT
Like sexy, custom-fitted latex fetish wear, but don't have the budget for custom-fitted latex? This project describes a simple do-it-yourself latex body suit that's skin-tight and very sexy.
HOW TO MAKE LATEX THIGH-HIGH BOOTS
If you like boots, this project shows how to make a pair of do-it-yourself thigh-high latex fetish boots that'll knock your partner's socks off. It takes only a couple hours to make, and looks and fits very well.
HOW TO MAKE A SPIKY COLLAR
This quick, fun project shows how to make an extremely unusual style of collar that'll get a lot of attention wherever you go, for only a few dollars and a few minutes' time.
A handful of reviews of things I personally dig..
REVIEW: NJOY PLEASURE WAND
I don't normally do product reviews. But this toy is so cool and so much fun to play with that I can't help gushing about it.
REVIEW: TANTUS FEELDOE
The Feeldoe is the Formula 1 race car of strap-ons. Not necessarily the best choice for a strapon newbie, but my goodness, what a fun toy this is.